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Victoria Finch

Insulted by Ebonics - Do you unknowingly stereo type other people?

As many of you know I was recently in the hospital for an asthma attack. While I was there, I had a male nurse who looked at me and instantly addressed me as “girl” in slang. You have probably guessed the nurse was white. I felt insulted and stereo typed. I am sure that he meant no harm, but nevertheless, I did not appreciate being addressed in that manner by someone I do not know. I am here to say, it is NOT acceptable to address African-Americans that you do not know in Ebonics. I embrace my heritage and our vernacular. I use slang with my friends, but if you don’t know me like that, don’t address me like that.

Do you think that I am being over sensitive? If you are white, do you address African-Americans differently? If you are African-American, does it insult you when whites address you in Ebonics when they don’t know you? Let me know what you think.

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Ummmm??????????????

UUUUMMM!!!!!!

Hey Mike, Did you check out that link I Sent?
I'm familiar with Urban Dictionary.
I all for advocating "American English".

Hey Chris, did you hire me because I spoke English!

That's a rhetorical question. Actually, Chris and I communicate well and that's because we have just that in common - the ability to communicate using a common and socially accepted language - ENGLISH! I do that is a key factor in all the relationship building that goes on here at SI.

But, don't get me wrong - I can get down! It's just not a way of life for me.
OMG!

I read this after I made my "gay" comment!

How funny!
I agree with you... your not overly sensitive. I don't understand why some people feel that they have to change speech patterns or body language when conversing with different ethnicities. I speak in the same manor regardless of who is in the conversation. I do pass the judgment on the person changing the way they speak as being insecure when they change their speech to Ebonics, etc. I respect the other person in the same manor I want to be repected and let the chips fall as they may.
You know, Todd, I love it when my SI brothers adn sisters reach ot and we speak over the phone!

It's so great to be able to communicate on common ground and not have the preconceived notions that I might just talk a certain way because I am the "B" word!

That'sa "B" asa ina "Black" (Oops, now my I-talian vernacular came out!)

I digress! I'm getting silly. Time for me to go manage my own group Make me Laugh - Show me the FUNNY!!!!!!!)

I am enjoying this exchange because we all recognize that no matter what, this what makes world go 'round.
(Oops, now my I-talian vernacular came out!)


As an Italian-American, I am extremely offended by this.

It's EYE-talian. LOL
Off topic for sure!

In this corner we have - Chris Flener

And

In This corner we have Michael R.

Your referee for the night is Victoria Finch and your judges are everyone who has contributed to this discussion.

And the Winner is _______________________________(fill in the blank)

My winner is "all of us" for chiming in on such a passionate discussion in such an educated, articulate and respectful manner. This is the epitome of "social networking"!
Not yet, but i did try to join your "man" club!"

I like hangin' with the fella's.

I'll check you out.

Just in case none of you know, Chris Flener loves himself and he actually loves people! He will yank your chain for a good discussion.

Just keep that in mind. He likes to make you think!
I don't know his physical background...but I do know mine :)

I've been boxing since I was 5.

We can meet at Tyndall Armory whenever you like. I'll have my man Cedric Johnson set it up.
Maybe we can get a fundraiser match going here?

Operation "OpenUP!" could use the money.

Of course you would have to use big, over-sized boxing mitts!!! I don't want anyone hurting each other!

Whuddya say, guys?
the winner is always Chris.

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