At what age are we no longer cool?

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Permalink Reply by matthew w. wilson on November 8, 2009 at 10:29pm

It's all in your head. Age is relative. You are old as soon as you think and feel that you are old.

I am 24 and wake up some days feeling frumpy and uncool.

And if you are trying to be cool, you are probably not cool.

haha

Fantastically outstanding post Pat!

who's the dude in the pic? a friend? a relative? or just a random dude?

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Permalink Reply by Pat Coyle on November 8, 2009 at 11:33pm

Photo is from Flickr. Random guy. Question was inspired by my older sister who was telling me about one of her daughters, who just got her first "real" job post college. Apparently there are a bunch of new grads who like to hang out with each other and avoid the veterans cuz the "old' people just aren't "cool." Makes me laugh. I remember my first job in sales...I learned more riding with the "old" guys than I ever did hanging with youth.

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Permalink Reply by Genie Goykhberg on December 13, 2009 at 10:21pm

Agree!

I am 54 and still as cool as it gets!

At least that is what 13 years old girl told me (the last one who did), who wanted to hang out with me and learn from me.

Almost all young people look good.
I can make almost every girl look like a model - Thank God for clothes and make up ;)!

Look how differently we age!

Its truly up to each of us!

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Permalink Reply by matthew w. wilson on November 8, 2009 at 10:30pm

The coolest thing anyone can do, regardless of age is to be calm, relaxed, approachable, and open-minded to sharing ideas and experiences.

And smiling is important.

People who walk around mean-mugging every stranger they see are very uncool.

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Permalink Reply by Tom Marsh on November 9, 2009 at 9:59am

The first time you see this kid and say or think any phrase that begins with "In my day..."

Those three words: That's the transition.

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Permalink Reply by matthew w. wilson on November 9, 2009 at 11:51am

When can a person properly use the phrase, "back in the day...."

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Permalink Reply by matthew w. wilson on November 9, 2009 at 11:51am

does back in the day have to refer to something 5 years ago, 10 years ago, 2 years ago...

i think this relates to Tom's comment.

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Permalink Reply by Tom Marsh on November 10, 2009 at 11:01am

I personally say "Once upon a time" to express the idea that I'm reaching back to a prior era. "Back in the day" doesn't sound very natural on my lips as I'm a child of the Burbs.

...I have similar difficulties with "y'all" and "UMbrella" (where I'm from, its just umbrella.)

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Permalink Reply by Jack Shepler on November 9, 2009 at 2:05pm

I would just like to point out that he has a tattoo of a rabbit with the sign of the horns as a head. Also, he gets massive hipster points for retro photoshop color affect and at least a couple for black plastic frame glasses and 70's shirt.

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Permalink Reply by Jim Shireman on November 9, 2009 at 2:51pm

I know some folks in their 70's and 80's who are very cool people. They are open to new ideas, ways of approaching the changes in society, are not judgemental, use the internet, cell phones, and can program a DVR. They are not stuck in their ways and are very interesting to talk to because they focus on others and not themselves. Being cool has nothing to do with age and everything to do with how you live your life.

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Permalink Reply by Marita Topmiller on November 9, 2009 at 6:37pm

well said, Jim.

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Permalink Reply by Mike Magan on November 11, 2009 at 10:09am

great post Jim, I think I will become uncool when I believe the world, overall was better than the one I live in right. this. second. Although, that sounds like getting old.

I honestly do worry too much about what other people think of me and that may be a driving factor behind my interest in keeping me up-to-date AMONG MY PEERS. However I would look rediculous trying to fit in with my daughter's 12 y/old friends in a conversation about the upcoming Twilight movie.

Imagine 38-y/old me saying "Isn't that movie called 'Twilight 2 Electric Bugaloo'? (reference to 1986's Breakin'2) and they were completely lost.

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